Steve has been around the block, knows what guys want and walks the fine line between blunt honesty and well-intentioned (almost big-brotherly) advice.The lowdown: Men think differently and love differently than women. They're not going to call you every hour of the day, or meet standards that you don't set for them.Reading non-fiction without being actively engaged provides what I call “fantasy learning.” It’s a type of passive learning where people read and get excited about the idea of making a change, yet don’t take any action.Remember, the books I recommend below are great resources.
Call the first section “Highlights,” the second “Action Items,” and the third “Summary.”For example, if you are reading a book on how to talk to girls, and it discusses using a great way to transition to a more sexual conversation, you will write down that action step on the pad of paper. Some are based on theory and don’t have any actionable items. Do the best you can to find any action steps, and if you can’t, just continue on.This will help you retain the most important information that you’ve just read.Don’t skip this step—as much as you tell yourself you can just as easily look through the book at your original highlights, it’s not the same as writing them down.Best advice: "Be a Creature Unlike Any Other, which is about doing the best with what you have, not wishing you were someone else." Read it or toss it: Toss it. You can tame the beast by being playful, unpredictable and proving you're a smart, sophisticated, high-caliber woman.Best advice: "Every woman must have a set of personal standards that she will not compromise just because she wants love... There are five 'must-haves' that build relationships, not walls: trust, respect, personal space, honesty and quality time." Read it or toss it: Read it.Jumping between too many topics is the same as channel surfing or mindlessly browsing the Internet, and that’s not what we’re trying to replicate.Reading the table of contents will help you see the big picture, so you can connect the dots as you dig into the book.Vous pouvez demander à accéder, faire rectifier ou supprimer les informations vous concernant ou vous opposer à leur traitement par le Groupe Meetic dans la rubrique “mon compte” sur Meetic ou aux coordonnées précisées dans les CGU.Nos membres sont à la recherche de belles histoires et nous mettons tout en œuvre pour leur permettre de les vivre.3, 2, 1 cherchez ! Trouvez ceux qui vous correspondent avec la recherche par critères ou laissez-vous charmer par leurs petits détails. Laissez-vous guider par notre coach virtuelle Lara pour trouver la perle rare.At this point, you’re going to have a full list of action items.Put those in chronological order (which it may be already) because this is your new to-do list.