” It’s a natural feeling to want to something but what you should do is: Dating is a waiting game because it depends a lot on timing. There is no need to go through the formalities of actual courtship, you are ready to forego all other men for his attention now.
Unfortunately, most relationships don’t progress this way.
You’re also telling him that you don’t trust he can, or will pursue you of his own accord. It takes patience to let a man to date you the way feels comfortable with, and some women just don’t have the patience to do it.
They lack the confidence, and they don’t trust the process.
Putting trust into the guy that you want to be exclusive with shouldn’t sound like a crazy concept.
There is no amount of pursuit that you can offer, that will get a man into a relationship who doesn’t want to be in one.
Taking action seems more appealing than lying wait but why would you want to work that hard to get a man?