” I wonder that too, and I’ll put the blame on the dark swedish winter and the bright swedish summer.You also must think that Swedish women hate their fellow men.For instance, if your boyfriend or husband is hardly ever home, rather than saying: “Why aren’t you ever home?” say “I really love it when you’re here.” If your partner isn’t meeting your needs, it is always a much better strategy to tell him what you want rather than constantly hammering in what it is you don’t want and pointing out the ways in which he’s failing to meet your needs.If dating Swedish men was confusing enough, then dating Swedish women must be more so.I’m a girl, an American-Indian girl, and therefore am not Swedish.
And finally, if you have some gentlemanly qualities, the beautiful blond Swedish girls will be all over you.
And the key to a successful relationship is communicating your needs in a way that the other person can it.
If you attack or blame, your guy will completely shut down and tune you out.
If you come from a place of compassion and appreciation, he will tune in to exactly what you’re saying and will try to do whatever he can to make you happy.
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