doesn’t know that: when she meets you, you could be Jack Ryan, Jack Sparrow or Jack the Ripper. Even more terrifying is the fact that, over the course of her life, the biggest threats to her You need to understand how women evaluate your qualities and how they perceive the status, danger, opportunities and threats that you could present.
The better you learn to see these things from women’s points of view, the less unattractive you will be to them and the less confused, resentful and frustrated you will be by how they respond to you..
This is their experience not just at bars and clubs, but at school and work, on the street and the subway.And it will also help your relationships with your mom, sisters, daughters, female friends and co-workers.They are based on the best, current scientific knowledge that we have about women’s psychology and sex differences.Here’s the thing, though: when women say, “Don’t objectify me,” they don’t mean “You’re never allowed to look at my boobs or notice my butt.” Actually, they kind of like their boobs and butts, and hope you do, too, if you’re a good guy and you : a savvy customer evaluating your products (traits) and ads (proofs) to see if they’ll add value to her life.If you want to guarantee mating failure, all you have to do is think of her as nothing more than an inanimate object—as an “8” or a “9,” as a simplistic robot with a set of “triggers” and “hot buttons” to manipulate. You’re single, it’s Friday night after a long week and you’ve decided to go out and have some fun.At that point you’ve reduced your customer to nothing more than a cash dispenser, or, since we’re talking about objectifying a woman, a sex dispenser. At the purely practical level of attracting women, it’s stupid. You and some friends decide to check out a new gay bar that you’ve heard has a lot of hot guys.It might temporarily reduce your anxiety about approaching them (about making your pitch), because if you think of them as targets, you can try to trick yourself into thinking that they won’t be judging you when you walk up to them. When you walk in, you encounter an overwhelming sea of men.It will help you have better dates, cooler conversations and hotter sex.It will help you to stop acting like a self-sabotaging dick.Some of them are really lame and unattractive and make crude, ham-fisted passes at you. Some of the same male traits that frighten you the most also seem to be the most attractive to you.The guys who pose the greatest physical threat are also the same guys you can envision making you feel the safest.