We’ll start with the approach and end with how you exchanging numbers. If you can’t think of anything to say on the spot, a simple “Hey” or “Hey, hows it going? Women don’t expect to be chatted up during their daily routines. So there is no need to straight up interogate a girl on her hobbies and interests in the hope of finding a connection.
So it’s polite to start with “excuse me” to avoid alarming them. You’ve just met the girl so avoid asking serious questions like, “What do you do for work? Similarly to the opening line, keep your initial conversation simple and situational.
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Same goes for saying you couldn’t help but notice her tits. Once you can read the cues of interest women subconsciously put out there, you can start to escalate sexually.
You need the reassurance a girl likes you before lunging in for the kiss. It’s not cool to ask a girl “Is it OK if I kiss you? Instead, learn to be observationally aware of the situation, pick up on the cues and know the right time to smoothly go in for the kiss.
For example if you’re talking to a girl at the train station, ask where she’s heading today. Laughter is the way to a woman’s heart, so if you can banter and joke around she’ll be extremely receptive to the idea of meeting up with you again. ” and she replies with “Brighton” (a seaside town in the UK), you could reply with something like “What to sunbathe?
Listen for the answer and build the conversation from there. You’ll freeze to death in this cold weather, you crazy girl”.
If you can bounce back from your failures, learn from your mistakes and keep practicing, you’ll slowly become desensitized to the fear of rejection and become unstoppable with women.If you don’t agree with what she says, challenge her. Think of something she wouldn’t normally expect a guy to acknowledge about her. So rather than say something generic like “You’re gorgeous” instead say, “You have a really nice smile” or “I like your nose piercing…it suits you…they don’t on most girls”.Backhanded compliments or ‘negging’ a girl also works well (like the nose piercing example above).The ultimate goal of pick up is to ‘close the deal’ in whatever shape or form that may be.Whether you exchange phone numbers, go in for the kiss or take a girl home with you, ultimately depends on the situation.Here are the common indicators of interest to look out for. As a way of ending the conversation on a high note.As obvious as some may seem, it’s easy to forget when you’re in the moment: But if a girl’s investment in the conversation is low – she’s not laughing at your jokes or giving you her full attention, then it’s probably best to end the conversation and walk away. It’s better to cut the conversation short than drag it out. Say “It was great bumping into you, but I have to get going…. it’d be cool to meet up again sometime” Never leave the interaction empty handed.If she looks in a hurry or appears to be emotionably unavailable, respect her space. Practice on your highs and lows and accentuating words like you’re telling a story. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not to impress a girl.Just like we all hate to be harassed by street sellers and charity collectors, observational awareness is important. By transferring over your positive emotions she’ll feel relaxed and enjoy the moment too. Slowww everything right dowwwn, speak up to get her attention, and don’t mumble. Women are perceptive creatures and will smell a ‘fake’ a mile away. Radiate the positive qualities you possess because self assurance is sexy. Telling a girl you’re a dolphin trainer by day and a black-belt Muay Thai fighter by night will inevitably have repercussions.Before we jump straight into the 7 situations, I’ll give you my step-by-step method for picking up girls.It’s so simple you can start putting it into action immediately.