When you build up your personality you simultaneously increase your attractiveness.When you ask a woman what she want’s in a man one of the first thing she’ll say is “a nice guy”.Wait a minute, so you’re telling me that I can’t play video games, drink booze, watch netflix and smoke who knows what everyday and be attractive to high quality women? To attain a relationship with the woman of your dreams, you need to create an ABUNDANCE MENTALITY.When you’re coming from this frame of mind, you demonstrate that you are a man of value. Being a man of value is not something you can fake with little tricks and gimmicks, it’s something you are or you aren’t. Stop rejecting yourself by not even talking to women you see all around you.She left you an emotional voice mail when you forgot to respond to her text one time…This girl is crazy right? It is desperate, and makes the girl think: Something must be wrong with him she’ll think. But NEVER should he want her so much that he’ll start putting her on a pedestal and start valuing her over himself and his own life.The guys that care too much lowers his own value and doesn’t create sentiments of allure because guys that care too much are telling women– through concern, through availability, through his being there too much- that he is in fact, not special or unique at all. He is more available than hydrogen, more common than dirt, and freer to talk to than the operator at Home Depot – but a smooth operator he is not.. She’ll run faster than Usain Bolt in the Olympics and any person who has respect for himself would do the same.You think: “There is NOBODY out there for me so I better treat this one girl amazing because I don’t know if and when I will ever experience this again”. It’s a necessary precondition to happiness and success.– Bobbe Sommer When you start thinking like this, you start liking girls that remotely show any signs of interest in you.
Being a man is about reaching your own personal apex. And then she heads home and meets the guy she really wants to be with.
When you use money to take a woman out to nice dinners and to buy her gifts too early in the relationship, the woman will begin to think the man is trying to BUY her affection. And if she actually likes this then my advice to men is: RUN!
Personality is the key to being good with women and dating. Deep down, women are attracted to your personality more-so than any other trait of a man.
You think you can’t create that same connection with another girl, so you settle for less than you deserve without even realizing it YOU NEED TO . There is more than one girl that you can have this feeling with. And you can date these women when you take women off the pedestal you hand crafted out of gold for her. It doesn’t serve you and women don’t like it Check this out: Let’s say you meet a chill guy as a friend and then after only a few days he started buying you a bunch of stuff and paying for all your food and drinks. It allows women to recline into the comfort you lavish them with, put their foot in your mouth that gives too many fake compliments, buys too many gifts, always being available and lets her walk all over you.
Then texts to make sure you got home ok, and “likes” all your facebook posts. Too early man it’s over before it started…You minus well lay on the floor and tell her to walk all over you! Women will only respect you for how much you respect yourself.