In most cases it’s our gut that gives us a feeling that something may be off. In other cases, there are some women that just don’t trust a man in general.They are constantly on guard for something to go wrong and checking a dating site for the guy they are dating is part of their ritual. When a man is committed to you he is committed to contributing to your happiness as well.Mary Hello Matilda, Your boyfriend has never truly been with you.He is emotionally unavailable, meaning that he does not, and cannot, open up and be emotionally open with you. He will say anything to avoid you finding out the truth.
We broke up for about 3 months, saw each other occasionally and one day he came back saying he loved me and he did want us to be together, I gave it another chance.
It could cripple you further and make you feel worse. You could not have done, or not done anything that would have prevented him from acting out like this. But if you stay with him, you will likely feel worse about yourself and then it does become your issue. Check out S-Anon and COSA (12 step groups for persons who have been affected by another's person's sex addiction).
The first thing here for you to consider before you start to analyze this to death is what made you check the dating site in the first place?
but we got back together and i thought we were on our way to work things out. why is he on this site if not to look for someone else.. I was also thinking that If he goes on a date I just turn up. At the same time I could just join i and address the issue might as well while I'm there... It was a kind of self harm which again nobody knows because I find it embarrassing.
But for some reason my gut told me something was off.yes! I found on his computer chat conversations he was having with random girls .. In one of those chats he introduces himself."such in such" from POF.. The profile says hes just there looking for friends, that he isnt seeking commitment or relationship. However all other info like city and age are also false. I felt I'm not lovable and well ..hated myself for it.