I imagine you probably don't hear from folks like us because, in addition to being less likely, we don't have much to write in about. Counseling Helped Our Marriage Persist My sex life actually did get better after I married my partner.I struggled with erectile dysfunction during my courtship with my wife.To the surprise of no one who has ever given sex advice for a living, the sex didn't get better after IMDONE and her boyfriend got married."Here's something I've never seen in my inbox: a letter from someone explaining how sex with their partner was infrequent, impersonal, uninspired, unimaginative, etc.
I did allow for the possibility that my sample was skewed; people with good sex lives don't write to tell me everything's fine.
I addressed my problems through counseling, medication, physical therapy, and even surgery.
My problevms are not 100 percent fixed, and we don't have sex as often as either of us would like, but when we have it, it's worlds better than when we started out.
We were (and still are) introverts with poor communication skills and anxiety/depression/mental-health issues.
I won't say it's been fairy-tale perfect—the kind of perfect that makes you barf and roll your eyes—but it's been pretty damn close.